Something God showed me and I see dads everywhere have a hard time with this:
Not all boys are meant to be athletes or even play sports... and that's GREAT! But, all little boys are able to work hard at something as they develop into a man.
•help your sons find their God given gift (not your own parent given gift), but their own passion. Making a son work hard at something they really hate, but that you love, is like putting them inside a prison. Their God given talent is robbed from them and they become trapped inside a prison of their parents desires.
•a child's identity is not in their performance. It is in Christ. If we take their gift away from them, that God gave them, they will feel they lost a little bit of their identity.
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